Sunday, June 27, 2010

The House That Built Me

I've heard this song on the radio a few times recently and it has caused me reflect on the houses and the places that have built and guided me. I realized that it isn't just one house or one place that makes us who we are. Every new place we go teaches us new lessons and prompts us to grow.
Home
My Family moved into this house when I was 7 years old, about 6 months after my brother Marc was born. I remember the house we lived in before this one, but most of my memories from growing up occurred here. This is where I played with my american girl doll under the dining room table with Rebecca. (We were under the dining room table because we were refugees in World War II.) This is the driveway where I learned to play pepper (bump, set, spike) with my Dad. This is where I had the coolest luau-themed sweet 16 party ever. This is where I got in trouble when I did something bad and where most of my friends and I hung out the majority of weekends because my Mom kept our freezer stocked with about 3 gallons of ice cream at all times. It is the house that still has "Return with Honor" painted above the front door because even when my parents were preparing to rent while they served their mission, my friends (non-LDS, male friends) told my Mom she couldn't paint over it because it was what my family stood for.

San Diego, CA
San Diego is my hometown. I took the picture above in December of 2005 after I learned that my parents would be leaving on a mission the following summer. I knew I wouldn't be in San Diego as much over the next few years and wanted to take some pictures to remind myself of home. Even though I haven't called San Diego home for roughly 6 years now, I still look at this picture a lot. I went to this spot on the beach just to be by myself, think, and write in my journal. San Diego is also the place I was sealed for time and all eternity to my sweet husband. The San Diego temple will always be special to me not only as my hometown temple, but the one where Russ and I started our family.

Provo, UT
BYU was my home for 3 1/2 years and it will always be one of my favorite places. It is where I learned to be independent and self-reliant. It is where I developed friendships that will last me a lifetime. It is where my testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ was solidified and where I made crucial decisions about what I wanted to be when I grew up, serving a mission, and who to marry. It is also the place where I had more fun than I'm sure I will ever have again.

Barcelona, Spain
Barcelona was my family's home for 3 years. Though I never stayed for longer than 2 months at a time, I ended up visiting 6 times and spent my summers and Christmas' there. It is amazing how quickly Barcelona became "home" and how profoundly it has affected my life. Barcelona is where my family unified itself in a cause like never before. It is where I received my endowment (technically that was Madrid) in the temple of the Lord. It is where my family met Russel for the first time and where we where engaged. Barcelona is where I learned about sacrifice.

Washington, D.C.
This has been my home for the last 3 years. I moved here in June of 2007 for an internship and minus a four-month stint back at BYU, I have been here ever since. This is the place that really threw me out of my comfort zone. I came alone to a new city and had to find my way. This is where I learned I could do things I thought I couldn't do. This is where I met a man and fell in love. It is where I learned to be a wife and where I have created a home with my husband. It is where I will become a mother.

I don't know what other places may be in store for me, but I am grateful for the four "homes" I have had so far. They have molded and built me into what I have become and what I will be.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day

I am a lucky girl indeed to have such a wonderful Dad. I am his first child and have always been a bit of a Daddy's girl, so I can really appreciate the special relationship that exists between a Dad and his daughter. I am so excited for Russel to be able to celebrate Father's Day with his little girl next year! I know he will be an excellent father and it makes me happy to think of all the fun things they will do together and of the special bond that they will develop.

In the spirit of celebrating fathers and daughters, here is a picture of my Dad and me on Father's Day 1992. (Those t-shirts are handmade Daddy-o-saurus and Lauren-o-saurus t-shirts courtesy of my Mom. I love them.)

Friday, June 4, 2010

It's a...

Girl!
We had our big ultrasound this morning and learned that we will be the parents of a little lady!


Here is a shot of her cute profile:
Upon hearing the exciting news, I made a date with my friend Nora to go to the mall and buy my daughters' first little outfit. (It turned into 2 outfits, but oh well.) Also, the outfits are a little big and she most likely won't be able to wear them until next summer, but there aren't exactly a lot of late fall/early winter clothes for sale right now. I love the little floral dress and the feminine white top. I know white isn't the most practical color for a baby, but I think it's so sweet.

And here is a shot of me at 19 weeks. I have grown significantly in the last three weeks and I'm guessing that will be the standard pace from here on out.


Monday, May 31, 2010

2 Years Ago Today

I married this wonderful man
in the beautiful San Diego Temple
and walked into my very own happily ever after.
What a wonderful 2 years it has been.
Happy Anniversary to my sweet husband and best friend.
I love you Russel!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

The Baby Bump

I have been pretty bad about taking pictures of my pregnant self, but here are two to show my growth so far. Neither photo is especially great, and I'm in pajamas/gym clothes in both of them, but I think the gym clothes do the best job of showing off the bump. I know I should be grateful I'm not really big already, but I just feel like I'm looking really chunky. A girlfriend of mine said that for her next pregnancy she is going to make shirts that say "I'm not fat, I'm just pregnant". If she ends up making them, I may just have to order one.

6 weeks

16 weeks

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Special Delivery

We are so excited to announce that soon we will be a little family of three! I am 14 weeks (tomorrow) and Baby Marsh is scheduled to arrive sometime around October 27th. I am thrilled to officially be past the first trimester and be able to share this wonderful news with everyone! We will have an ultrasound in about 5 weeks to check in on our little one and hopefully we'll be able to find out if we are having a boy or a girl!

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Grandma Waddell

Joann Barbara Schaeffer Waddell
June 27, 1929 - April 8, 2010


Grandma Waddell passed away this evening after being hospitalized a few days ago for a serious stroke. Though this is a difficult time for me, I know she is safe in the arms of our Father-in-Heaven. I love to think of the huge welcome she must have received, surrounded by countless family members for whom she searched and then performed work for in the temple. I am so grateful for a knowledge of the Plan of Salvation, which assures that our families are eternal and bound together forever.

There are so many things I love about Grandma, but here are just a few of my favorite things about her.
  • First of all, how gorgeous is that photo above? It was taken in the early 1960s and I simply love it. Oh and by the way, by the early 1960s she had already given birth to three of her four children. Stunning.
  • She dressed every day as if for a special event. Even at home in jeans and a sweater, you can be certain she had her make-up done, pink lipstick on and was wearing one of her beautiful pieces of jewelry to set it all off. I particularly loved a large turquoise necklace I think she and my Grandpa bought on an eastern European cruise.
  • You can be certain her fingernails and toenails were always perfectly painted. Her fingernails were usually something subtle and classy, a light pink more often than not. The color on her toes was a different story. She always told my sister and me that your toenails should be painted as brightly as possible so you could see the color even through the sand when you were at the beach.
  • She loved the beach and so do I. I remember going to watch her play beach volleyball in Manhattan Beach, CA with a group of ladies from her church congregation when I was a little girl. Before one particular match with the girls some 20 years ago, she found a kitchen spatula buried in the sand. They used it that day to hold the rope in place that set off their court and it became a staple item in Grandma’s kitchen from then on. She said it was the best spatula she ever owned.
  • When my sister and I went to visit her for weekends during the summer, we always went for early morning swims in her pool and then had homemade oatmeal. Oh how we loved that oatmeal. Grandma put loads of butter on everything she ate, including the oatmeal, and in addition to the butter, our oatmeal always had plenty of cream and lots of brown sugar.
I love you, Grandma!